Penis Got Bigger

Those exposed to western culture have been conditioned to believe the mindset ‘the bigger the better’ about all sorts of things, from cars to houses to portions in restaurants. This way of thinking extends to penile size as well. Big men are most likely to have slightly bigger penises, although, contrary to popular belief, there is no correlation between the size of a man’s nose or feet and the size of his organ.

Does it really make any difference when you’re having sex? For Samantha X, it matters – a lot. “Sure it matters – I’ve had some massive members in my time, and I really enjoyed them! I find that the bigger the penis, the greater the feeling.” In fact, a woman who doesn’t prefer a bigger-than-average penis is more of an exception rather than the norm. While men’s penis come in various colors, shapes and sizes, a study conducted by the Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex Research has shown that the average penis size is anywhere from 5-7 inches. Size does not matter – to a certain extent – in order bestow a physical sensation upon a woman. “I once slept with a guy who had a stub for a cock and I couldn’t feel anything. I ended up going into the bathroom and satisfying myself – a situation I don’t care to repeat.”

The heart of the matter is that most women don’t like very small penises, whatever is done with them. A small, slender penis is not very rewarding in itself and many women complain that they ‘can’t feel anything,’ especially if their vagina has previously been stretched by having children. That does not necessarily mean that length-challenged men cannot be good lovers, but that penis size alone probably is not going to do it.

Research has confirmed that what most women want is a bigger-than-average penis, but what is really important is width rather than length. They say the ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch the woman’s vaginal opening and which can be felt inside their body, each time they have sex. “I would rather sleep with a guy who has a thick member than someone with a thin, reedy schlong that hits my cervix every time he penetrates me.”

Similarly, most of the 200 women interviewed representing all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits opted for girth (or the circumference) over length, as they claimed to enjoy the feeling of a thick penis rubbing against their vaginal walls rather than having an unusually long penis poking against their insides.

When it comes to racial preferences, Samantha had this to say: “I’ve noticed that African-Americans are really well-endowed as compared to other nationalities. They also seem to be much more confident in bed knowing that they have the right size package.” One’s ethnic group does produce significant anatomical differences among males. For instance, black men are indeed bigger than Caucasian men, but only by half an inch or so, on average, while Asian men are about half an inch smaller on average.

All these information just show that women are turned on and satisfied by a large, thick, and powerful penis, not to mention they are visually stimulating as well. Women such as Samantha know how to appreciate well-endowed men, or even those just think they are, since they are usually much more sexually confident about their sack skills.

The penis enlargement market has fallen under a new sign: development. From a small and much maligned niche market, penis enlargement is now moving at full speed toward mainstream acceptance. Widespread prosperity and the possibility of living a more successful life with just a little effort have convinced thousands of men to seek solutions to a problem that older generations did not discuss or openly acknowledge. However, the times have changed and the taboos of yesteryear are no longer in force. Men have simply chosen to spend time and money in order to get more pleasure out of their sex lives.

Over the years, the range of penis enlargement products available for sale has exploded. From the old-fashioned and dull pumps and weights and on to the modern traction devices and enlargement pills, various products have been invented in order to respond to various needs. Since not all men are comfortable with penis enlargement pills, enterprising investors have launched male enhancement patches and creams. Pumps have been largely replaced by traction devices, while weights and exercises have their own niche markets. As you can see, there’s something for everybody on the penis enlargement market.

Surgery is still a controversial issue. The high cost of penis enlargement surgery keeps it out of reach of most men for which improving a satisfactory sex life is not worth the effort of raising thousands of dollars. More so when surgery comes bundled with a host of nasty hazards, such as impotence, scarring and loss of feeling in the penis. Another significant issue is the fact that surgical procedures like the injection of fat have to be performed again and again since fat is absorbed back by the body, while injected silicone tends to migrate to other parts of the body. These factors combined have convinced men to look for cheaper and safer penis enlargement opportunities.

Men are far more interested today in how they look and how they perform in bed. They want to learn new ways of pleasing their partners and to increase their dating and sex chances. This is one of the reasons men turn to penis enlargement techniques and a very good one. There is no need to talk about feelings of insecurity and anxiety in order to find out why men want larger penises. Suffice to say that men want to look good and that they love to see that special look on their partners’ faces when the pants come off. A well-endowed man commands the respect of women and men alike and this is what every man wants to see: respect.

As the penis enlargement market moves into the mainstream, more and more men will stop being embarrassed about their penis size and will have no problem to openly discuss size and ways of improving it. Penis enlargement is certain to become an accepted topic, mainly because of the large number of men who are satisfied with the results obtained from enlargement products and techniques. Beyond all advertisements and hype, results are the only thing that matter and your best reason to join the growing penis enlargement movement.

There are few men out there who have not at least once in their lifetime ever taken out a ruler and measured their male member. A quick peek through history will tell you, poets, philosophers, writers and artists alike have all tried to define the average and above average measure for manhood. Erotic art is full of examples of exaggerated manhood, because it is generally believed that the penis mirrors a guy’s sexual power and vigor. It’s not difficult to see why bigger is still thought to be better even in this so-called new millennium.

So going back to the age-old question; “does size really matter?” Both men and women alike are desperate to know what really gives. Men are equally obsessed, if not more so, with their penis size as women are with their breast size. In fact a lot of them are keen on finding out ways to make their member larger. That explains why the penis enlargement industry is booming by leaps and bounds, offering everything from cream, pills, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the fanatical stories of ‘well-endowed’ men have probably contributed to the already bizarre subject of penis size.

Studies show that the average penis size is not the 12″ poles being bandied about in porn. Actually average is between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth. Now there’s one myth that needs to be put to rest: penis size is completely unrelated to height or hand, feet, and nose size simply because there is no bone in the penis.

You probably heard it from countless women that “it’s not the size that matters but how you use it.” Though the length of the penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure, girth on the other hand may indeed matter in the long run. As what some reproductive therapists explain countless times, it has something to do with stimulating our G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

Anyway, personal preference is still based on the individual woman, some may like big while others small. When we ask a woman what does she prefer over penis length and penis girth, Courtney (not her real name), said that she likes her partner to have “meatier” penis, meaning fuller penis. She said that the nerves in her vaginal walls (located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus) are better stimulated during intercourse. Thus, girth might be significant here given that a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women crave during intercourse. She further added that even though the penis is the vital equipment in love making, it’s also the combination of skill, passion and romance that heightens the sensation.

To say that men who are small are no good in the sack is a hasty generalization and just short of discriminating. In general, women are more concern about the man’s entire package, rather than just the one between their thighs. Women also seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Try to show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or a bath with rose petals.

Most guys like looking at porn. There is nothing wrong with this. The problem is when they watch something on film and try to do it. You soon realize that you can’t do it. Do you remember the first time you saw someone on television attempt a stunt on a bike and you tried to do it? You fell on your ass and ran home to cry to your mother. You might not cry to your mother when you can’t perform a sex act, unless you are in some weird incest cult, but its all the same. I wonder how many people really get to spray spunk into their partners face, or get to slap there dick on there arse. Is porn really comparable to REAL sex?!?!?

You can’t expect yourself to be able to do the things they do. They are pros at it. I know that sounds funny, sometimes I wish I was a pro at having sex. That is what they are though. That is why they get paid the big bucks to show it all for the camera. They can bend themselves into positions that we can’t even imagine. The women can suck a cock twice as long as a normal woman can. When was the last time you saw a woman take a huge penis in her back door and wonder how she could take all of it?

Some women are into trying out what they see on the television. That doesn’t mean though that they play with themselves with the sex toys all day long watching porn. That means that they are really into the sex acts. That is like hitting pay dirt my friend. If you were at a casino lights would be flashing telling you that you won a jackpot. Well, let’s slow down a little here. There is one problem, kind of a big problem. Most men see these things in the movies and they are too embarrassed to ask their lover to try it out. I’m not sure why this is, but maybe it has to do with the fact that you have to admit to watching porn.

If you never ask, you will never know. If you run under the blankets every time you want to try something new, she won’t ever know what is on your mind. Though it might seem like it at times, women aren’t mind readers. You need to tell her what you want to do. Don’t be ashamed. Chances are there are new things she would like to do as well. If you keep an open line of communication open, you stand a better chance of acting out your fantasizes. What do you have to loose? You need to keep in mind that just because she likes to get nasty, that doesn’t mean that she is nasty. You have to keep a different mind set when you see your woman doing these sex acts compared to the woman you see in the movie doing it. In your mind the woman in the movie is a dirty slut, in real life, the woman doing this to you is the woman you have to wake up next to.

If you expect to have a lasting relationship that lasts more than one bang, you need to be open. If you plan on being with this woman for a long period of time, then you need to be able to discuss your sexual dreams. That is the only way a relationship can last. If you don’t you will end up with a lot of built up tension or one hell of a credit card bill from buying porn videos all the time. Its not worth keeping your fantasizes quite. Be open, be honest. You will find out that she has some weird sexual desires to. Have fun with them. If you expect her to go along with yours, you have to expect to go along with hers. Life is a two way street, the only one way streets are guys named Cindy who like it in the ass from another guy.

You should buy some oils and maybe even some kinky costumes. Do a little role playing in bed. Be that big bad rent collector and she doesn’t have the money to pay this month. Tell her that she will have to lie on her back and screw you for this months rent. Do kinky stuff that turns both of you on. Usually there is some middle ground that you can reach regarding things like this. Make it fun, be an actor. Try to win a Grammy award.

Don’t be unrealistic. Don’t expect her to be able to roll up in a ball like putty while you bang her. Chances are most men and women can’t get themselves in the positions that they see in the movies. That is just a fact you will have to live with. Instead, take away bits and pieces that you know you will be able to do. Do a variation of doggy style or something like that. Have her lay on a pillow so her buttocks points higher up than normal. That sort of thing. Find ways to work around all of it.

If you aren’t too demanding, things will fall into place. You aren’t a movie director, don’t tell her how to make her every move. That will only put too much pressure on her. If you were put under that much pressure you wouldn’t be able to perform. So won’t be able to either. Keep a clear and realistic mind when it comes to acting out your favorite sex scenes. This will help you get the most bang for your porno buck. It will keep you a satisfied customer again and again.